Monday, March 15, 2010

Sexual Wholeness

Have you been stung in some way by the sex industry? I told a group of people the other night that it is hard to turn on the television or computer without feeling the sex industry's effects. The phone calls from guys struggling with pornography keep coming in. This again is tied to the sex industry. I want to stand up and say enough is enough.

My heart is heavy for how many people have been hurt by the sex industry. I feel like we have a unique opportunity within the Refuge to be a voice for sexual wholeness. My desire is that we help women leaving the industry through the Refuge and also gain access to platforms that will allow us to share the heart of God regarding sexuality God's way. I have decided to use this blog in coming days to speak of issues surrounding sexuality. I am taking classes in Atlanta at a ministry called Sexual Wholeness Institute. I want to continue educating myself to be the best representative possible to an onlooking world. I will travel 4 times to Atlanta this year for a weekend of classes.

Here is where I need your help!

I need you to give me feedback on my thoughts and help me see from all angles. Ithink too often Christians are silent on issues regarding sexuality and it has led to shame and secrecy in the Church for those struggling. We preach against sinful involvement but dont always provide safe places for questions and dialogue. I am going to post thoughts and questions and would love for you to participate. My hope is that just as AA was taboo in the church 30 years ago that these issues of sexuality would continue finding a place in the church to be dealt with. Your involvement will help me and will also prepare me better for those I minister to. So here is the first question:

Was your church family a safe place growing up to ask the tough questions without fear of condemnation regarding sexuality? If yes, how was it? If no, tell me about it.

1 comment:

  1. It's not that it wasn't a safe place, it was just a older congregation and you just didn't talk about sex with them, it was so hush hush..

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